July 12, 2018
“I’m stressed!” When you hear these words, you probably imagine the many situations in life when you have felt stressed or nervous. The reality is that most of us wish stress would just disappear as it often leads to intense emotional pain.
Let’s look at stress from another perspective, however. It may seem contradictory at first, but stress can motivate us to achieve and become more successful.
A good example is when giving a speech before a large audience. Picture yourself about to go on stage. Your mind is full of thoughts such as “Maybe I’ll freeze up”, your heart beats fast and you pace back and forth. If our nervousness overwhelms us, we struggle to give our speech. If we manage out nervousness successfully, however, it will not affect our performance negatively.
In fact, a moderate amount of stress and nervousness motivates us to perform more successfully. This is the optimal stress level and it helps us achieve success in many areas, including giving speeches.
How do we achieve the optimal stress level? First, we need to manage our nervousness. Some strategies to tame our nerves include thinking positive thoughts and deep breathing. Overuse of these strategies, however, may lead to complacency and decrease our motivation. Achieving the optimal stress level requires trial and error. We want to reduce our nervousness so that it does not overwhelm us but maintain it at a lower level so that we remain motivated and achieve our best.
I encourage you to achieve your optimal stress level so that you become more successful as well as satisfied in life.
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